Many people think,"It won't mean as much
if i have to tell you to say you love me or explain to you how
to show it. I want to do it spontaneously."
Wouldn't it be wonderful if those close to us
always knew exactly what we wanted? they would always say and do all the right
things in just the right ways.
Unfortunately, people are not mind readers. If you don't
articulate what you want and need, it's likely that you won't get it.
One of the best ways to communicate your needs
is by treating your one the way you would
like to be treated. Setting an example can be a signal
to the other person. But when words are needed, have the
courage to speak up and state your needs.
It will make both you and your relationship stronger..
